our opinions have nothing to do with how the world is - only how we see it.

our judgements have nothing to do with right or wrong - only how we interpret it.

our attitudes are not determined by what's thrown our way - only in how we react.

there is no reality - only our perceptions.

Out beyond ideas of wrong-doing and right-doing,
There is a field. I'll meet you there.
When the soul lies down in that grass,
the world is too full to talk about.
Ideas, language, even the phrase each other
doesn't make any sense.

Rumi